Diane Pernet, the editor of cult-favorite blog, A Shaded View On Fashion, and the co-editor-in-chief of Zoo Magazine, is one of fashion's most iconic figures. With her towering hair, blood-red lips, all-black ensembles, veil and sunglasses, she is a stylistic sphinx. Here, she reveals herself through her philosophy - a very different idea of what luxury means: never being lonely. In a world where material goods are used as markers of personal satisfaction, her abstract approach to the idea of luxury is an inspiration. God knows, I'd love the luxury of never being lonely.
It’s hard for
people to believe but the truth is I’m really a loner. If you want to see the
worst of my personality then put me in a house with other people, somewhere far
removed from a city and make me dependent on someone else to drive a car. It
could be in the Tuscan countryside, or a large villa in the middle of nowhere,
no matter how magnificent the surroundings, the truth is I really need to be alone.
I do love
people and I cherish my friends, and in fact I cannot imagine my world without
them, but at the end of the day, I need to be alone. I’ll never understand the
people that prefer to be houseguests when they could just as easily stay in a
hotel. I guess, unlike me, they
simply cannot bare the idea of being left alone.
I have a
friend that used to call me every time I sent him an e-mail because he could
not understand why, when we were both living in Paris, I just did not pick up
the phone.
I remember
years ago being offered a villa in the south of France. We were filming the
making of the festival d’Hyeres. The founder of the festival proposed that
instead of putting us up in hotel rooms that they would offer us a car and a
villa so that we could all stay together. For my collaborator this was heaven,
for me this was the definition of hell.
My first
husband and I used to think that the ideal situation for us would be to live
separately but close to each other. It wasn’t a matter of being unfaithful it
was just a matter of wanting and needing personal space. My fourth husband used to have a
lovely house in Normandy. I had a standing invitation but I knew after a day or
so of cutting roses and eating delicious home made food, I’d feel trapped and
missing the luxury and freedom of the city and cement.
Diane's first husband
For me luxury
is not a full time chauffeur, although that would suit me just fine, it is the
pleasure of having a few dear friends that I really care about and that bring
me moments of supreme happiness, and of course the luxury of doing what I love
and enjoying, frankly, being
alone.
Diane Pernet